Congratulations to Our Latest Winner!

As you know, we conducted a little contest for our first challenge, which was to incorporate 16oz of water into your daily diet. It took a little getting used to, but I must say that now, there is nothing more satisfying than a glass of ice cold water! Delicious! I will write a post with [...]

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“Get Off Your Ass” Friday at Help Yourself

There’s something that you’ve been meaning to do. You know that it will help you with your [insert your goal, dream, plan, idea here]. But you just haven’t done it yet. Maybe you had a great idea in the shower to earn some extra income—you just have to remember to call Suzy’s friend Ryan to [...]

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Walking the Dog – Keeping a Short Leash on Bad Habits

This morning, I was out walking my monster, Max. As soon as we got outside, Max started to pull. I decided right then and there that I would have to keep Mr. Max on a very short leash during our walk. The sidewalks were still slippery and there was “black ice” all over the ground. [...]

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Why Helping Yourself is the Only Way to Help Others

For the last seven years, I have had the same problems and the same goals. This is precisely why I started this blog – to help myself and in doing so, to help others to meet their goals. I set out to make changes in an effort to maximize my life, work and habits so [...]

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A Rant: On President Obama and Health Care

Health Care.
You can sum up my disappointment with the Obama Administration in two words. Health. Care.
I was a Hillary supporter early on, but like many African-Americans, I was absolutely energized after Obama won the New Hampshire primary. I read every piece of literature that I could find, immersed myself in pages and pages of web [...]

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Don’t Give Up On Your New Year’s Resolutions

It’s January 12. Do you know where your New Year’s resolutions are?
Hopefully, they’re not on that crumpled up piece of paper that I see in your circular file. Hopefully, they’re taped to your refrigerator, hanging from your mirror, or posted to your front door. If they’re not, and you’re feeling a little discouraged about your [...]

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6Changes.com

6Changes is a new site by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits and author of The Power of Less.
It goes like this:

Pick 6 habits for 2010.
Pick 1 of the 6 habits to start with.
Commit as publicly as possible to creating this new habit in 2 months.
Break the habit into 8 baby steps, starting with a ridiculously [...]

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Quit Stalling and Get On With It

There comes a time in every man’s life when he gets tired of foolin’ around…
–Prince
It’s day eight of “becoming an ex” and I’ve hit a wall. I’m sputtering and about to stall. I know exactly what my triggers are, I know when and why I smoke, and I know how many cigarettes I smoke per [...]

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Why Tracking Cigarettes WILL Help You Quit

The other day, I was having brunch with my friend and one of her good friends. Let’s call her Marta. Anyway, Marta is a beautiful older woman who has lived a robust life and continues to. She travels to several different countries every year, is a deep well of spiritual knowledge and guidance and has [...]

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Day 4 – Becoming an Ex

Well, I’m on Day 4 of becoming an ex. Today was my first day of separation, which was a little bit difficult, but I survived. Basically, during separation, you have to put some distance between your trigger and your nicotine habit. For me, my main trigger is driving, so I decided that for the first [...]

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